OMG, I Said YES! …Now What!

Hey there, future newlyweds! 💕 Welcome to my little corner of the internet, where I help you plan the wedding of your dreams while keeping you from spiraling into Pinterest-induced madness.

Before we dive into the world of wedding planning, let’s start with a little story—one that changed my life forever.

How It All Began

I didn’t grow up dreaming of being a wedding planner. In fact, my journey into this world started in 2019, when my brother and his fiancée asked for my help planning their wedding.

I was honored, of course—but there was something extra special about this experience. My brother and his wife are part of the hard-of-hearing community, and my sister-in-law wanted to make sure her voice was truly heard throughout the process.

I found myself loving every second of it—helping her bring her vision to life, making sure every detail reflected their love story, and most importantly, ensuring they both felt celebrated. By the time the wedding day rolled around, I realized something huge: I was meant to do this.

And just like that, my wedding planning business was born.

But enough about me. Let’s talk about you and the crazy, exciting, slightly overwhelming journey you’re about to begin.

Step One: You Said YES! (Cue the Happy Freak-Out)

The proposal just happened. Maybe it was a total surprise, or maybe you saw it coming (because let’s be honest, some of us are just that good at detecting secretive behavior). Either way—you said YES, and now your left hand has become the main character of your Instagram story. 💍✨

You’re floating on Cloud 9, reliving the moment over and over, calling your besties, and—of course—snapping way too many ring selfies. (Don’t worry, we all do it.)

Then, after a few days (or hours) of pure bliss, reality sets in…

“Wait… now what?”

This is when most couples fall headfirst into the black hole of wedding planning. Pinterest boards? Created. Instagram hashtags? Searched. TikTok trends? Watched at 2 AM. And before you know it, you’re knee-deep in venue quotes, overwhelmed by floral arrangements, and questioning whether or not you need a 12-piece live band.

Sound familiar?

Before you go full “Wedding Planning Overload,” let’s hit pause for a second.

Step Two: The Conversation That Changes Everything

Before you spend a single dime, sit down with your fiancé and have a real conversation.

Forget trends, forget what everyone else is doing—this is about YOU TWO. Ask yourselves:

• What do we actually care about? (Besides the open bar, obviously.)

• How do we want to FEEL on our wedding day? Emotional? Carefree? Like royalty?

• What kind of experience do we want for our guests? A huge party? A cozy, intimate celebration? A weekend getaway?

💡 Pro Tip: Your wedding should be built on what matters to you, not just what looks good on Instagram.

This conversation is your anchor. When the planning process gets overwhelming (and trust me, at some point, it will), you’ll come back to this foundation and remind yourselves: This day is about our love, and that’s what matters most.

Step Three: How This Conversation Shapes Your Entire Wedding

Let’s say you and your fiancé sit down and realize that what truly matters to you is creating a warm, intimate, and joy-filled day where your guests feel like family. You want everyone to feel connected, comfortable, and part of your love story—not just attendees at a big, formal event.

Great! Now, let’s see how that simple realization shapes your wedding planning decisions:

1. Venue Selection Becomes Clearer

   • A giant ballroom might feel too formal for the cozy, intimate vibe you want.

   • Instead, you might gravitate toward a charming vineyard, a rustic barn, or a cozy garden setting where guests can mingle, laugh, and feel at home.

2. Guest List Feels More Purposeful

   • Instead of inviting everyone you’ve ever met (yes, even that coworker you barely talk to), you focus on the people who truly matter to you.

   • This makes your guest list smaller, which means more budget to spend on the things you truly care about.

3. Food & Drink Reflect Your Personal Style

   • Instead of a formal plated dinner, maybe you opt for family-style dining or fun food stations to keep things interactive.

   • A full open bar might not be necessary, but a signature cocktail that tells a story about your relationship?That’s a yes!

4. Décor & Entertainment Align with Your Vibe

   • Maybe instead of a DJ, you go for an acoustic band that plays the kind of music you and your partner love.

   • Instead of extravagant centerpieces, you focus on candlelit tables, soft florals, and cozy seating areas to make everything feel intimate and inviting.

This is the power of that one conversation.

By knowing how you want to feel on your wedding day, every decision becomes easier. You won’t get distracted by trends that don’t align with your vision, and you won’t waste time (or money) on things that don’t actually matter to you

Final Thought: Your Wedding, Your Rules

At the end of the day, wedding planning is supposed to be fun. Will there be stressful moments? YES! But if you start with a solid foundation—one that’s built on your love story—you’ll be able to navigate the chaos with confidence.

So, before you fall into the never-ending scroll of bridal trends, take a deep breath, have the conversation, and build from there. Your wedding, your rules.

And if it ever starts feeling like too much? Well, that’s where I come in. 😉

💌 Need help bringing your dream wedding to life without the stress? Let’s chat! I’d love to help you plan a wedding that feels like you. Book a consultation with me, and let’s make some magic happen! ✨

Until next time—happy planning, and don’t forget to hydrate! 💍